Tired of Dating Apps?
Struggling to meet high-quality partners in the UK? Whether you're navigating the dating scene in London or further afield, or looking for real connections beyond apps, dating can feel frustrating and overwhelming. I help men & women skip the swiping and build real-world confidence. Get hands-on training at my Men’s Academy or Women’s Going Renegade bootcamp, or learn online with my Men’s Masterclass or Women’s Masterclass.
The UK dating scene is fast-paced, diverse, and constantly evolving. Whether you’re in London, Manchester, or Edinburgh, it can feel like you’re meeting people all the time—but forming real connections is another challenge entirely. Many singles rely on dating apps with no real-world results.
As a UK-based dating coach, I provide expert coaching designed for this environment, helping you:
My coaching blends personal strategy, real-world experience, and direct feedback—so you can succeed in today's UK dating landscape.
"Joining your Masterclass was 100% the best decision I made this year. Rather than quick fixes, I learned to understand myself and attract the right partners. I've seen incredible changes in my dating life. The personalised coaching aspect was invaluable. I’m dating confidently and happily now - thanks Hayley!"
I take my clients out into real-world social environments, where you’ll practice meeting people in the same venues where dating actually happens:
No more endless swiping. No more ghosting or fake profiles. I’ll coach you step-by-step to start meeting partners organically, face-to-face, and with confidence.
Listen to how Saha now attracts the men she wants in real life, and how in-person "mini dates" have led to better connections, and a more fun, vivacious dating life.
Listen to Julia share her incredible story, and how Hayley's in-person coaching has reshaped her approach to dating.
Can’t make it to London? My online coaching programmes give you direct access to my expertise—wherever you are in the UK. Whether you prefer structured guidance at your own pace or real-time coaching, my programmes provide clear, practical steps to improve your dating life.
"Real Academy helps you understand not just what to do, but how to do it. It’s like gaining a superpower in dating."
The UK has an exciting and diverse dating scene—but finding a real connection isn’t always easy. With 15+ years of coaching experience, I help men and women meet high-quality partners beyond the apps. Ready to transform your dating life? Let’s get started.
If you’re looking for hands-on coaching, my in-person sessions are exclusively available in London. Whether it’s navigating social venues, mastering real-world interactions, or building confidence, I’ll work with you 1-on-1 in the heart of the city.
Forget endless texting—my hands-on approach helps you build confidence, meet people naturally, and master in-person interactions at social venues across London.
I’ve coached thousands of men and women, from busy professionals to creatives, helping them build confidence, attract high-quality partners, and find love right across the UK.
Every person—and every dating challenge—is unique. Whether you want to approach women in real life or refine your communication skills, I’ll personalise a strategy that works for you.
"I can’t recommend Virtual Masterclass enough! Hayley’s coaching is all based on real-world interactions and was exactly what I needed to step out of my comfort zone. I've met more men in the last four weeks than I have in years, and now I’m much more confident in creating opportunities for genuine connections. If you’re tired of apps and want real results, this is the way to go."
Hear from everyday people who’ve transformed their dating lives with my coaching. Whether it’s building confidence, meeting high-quality partners, or making real-world connections, these success stories prove that change is possible!
"I took part in Secret Place and Going Renegade trainings and heartily recommend the experience! The training was unique, exciting, at times awkward, and overall empowering. Hayley and her team are great and coach you throughout the evening, teaching you tips and tricks to approach men, or rather, get them to approach you ;) Prepare to be kicked out of your comfort zone!"
"I'm not just saying this and I don't want to sound cheesy but working with you has been a real life changer for me. The work that you and your team does is great and has helped me to realise the potential I have going forward - not just in dating/relationships but in other areas of my life. Thanks for everything so far!"
"I'm a guy and I struggle with shyness. I would like to find a loving partner, but there are many social situations where I'm uncomfortable, afraid to start conversation and simply inexperienced. Hayley and her team have shown me that women aren't as scary as I thought, have encouraged and empowered me to be honest and authentic, and taught me how to flirt in a respectful way. I can feel myself becoming unstuck in an area of my life that I've always struggled with. Thank you so much, Hayley!"
"This woman is incredible - if you can, get on one of her intensives! I took part in the Going Renegade for woman for a weekend and it was amazing - a great way to learn and develop skills for approaching and speaking to men. I met a lovely bunch of supportive woman and we stay in touch and still meet up to practice our skills together out on the town!!"
"Strongly recommended! I am happy to share that I did attend the Academy and it was life-changing, for the better:) Many thanks Hayley and team!"
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The UK dating scene is diverse, but many singles still struggle to meet partners in real life. In larger cities like London, fast-paced lifestyles and busy schedules can make dating feel transactional, while in smaller towns, limited options can make it harder to meet new people. My coaching helps you meet high-quality partners naturally, without relying on dating apps.
I offer in-person coaching exclusively in London, where I work with clients 1-to-1 in real social environments. Whether you’re looking to build confidence approaching people at a bar, social event, or casual setting, I provide practical, hands-on coaching so you can meet people effortlessly.
Yes! I coach both men and women, offering tailored programs to suit different dating challenges. Men can join Real Academy for in-person coaching, while women can experience hands-on coaching with Going Renegade. If you prefer to learn from home, I also offer structured online coaching programs.
Absolutely! If you can’t attend in-person coaching, my Virtual Masterclass for men and Virtual Masterclass for women provide expert guidance and personalized feedback that you can access from anywhere. That being said, a lot of folks travel from all ends of the country to attend my live sessions—in fact I have many overseas students join too, from the US, Canada, other parts of Europe and even Australia!
If you feel like you’ve hit a wall with dating—whether it’s struggling to meet people, lacking confidence, or being stuck in repetitive patterns—coaching gives you the skills and strategy to create real change. I’ll help you shift your mindset and take action in ways that get results.
Book a free 30-minute consultation where we’ll discuss your goals and find the right coaching path for you. Whether you're ready for in-person coaching in London or want to improve your dating life through one of my online coaching programmes, I’ll guide you toward the best next step. Ready to transform your dating life? Book Your Consultation.
