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Dating coach for men and women

Finally ready to meet the right person? I specialize in results-driven coaching to help you build confidence and meet people face-to-face—not just through apps or theory. Get real-world training (in the US and UK) at my Men’s Academy or Women’s Going Renegade bootcamp, or learn online at your own pace with my Men’s Masterclass or Women’s Masterclass.

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Why my dating coaching works

You’re here because you want real results in your love life. That’s why my coaching focuses on practical strategies, not just theory. Whether you want immersive, in-person training or structured online guidance, I offer programs designed to build confidence and dating success—without guesswork or gimmicks.

Over the past 15+ years, I’ve helped thousands of men and women through my YouTube videos, TEDx talk, and hands-on coaching. My approach blends real-world experience with direct feedback, helping you apply what you learn in actual dating scenarios.

For those ready to take action, my Men’s Academy and Women’s Going Renegade bootcamps provide hands-on coaching and real-world results.

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Testimonials

What male clients are saying about Hayley Quinn

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Before finding you, I was literally stuck in a dating rut!!

"The key thing working with you was how you blend perspectives from both men and women. It's given me a totally new understanding of dating that I never got from other coaches."

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Eric C.
Austin, US
Online programs

Shake-up your dating life, while learning from home

Want expert dating advice at your own pace? My online coaching programs offer structured guidance, real-time coaching, and proven strategies to improve your confidence and success in dating—wherever you are.

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What female clients are saying about Hayley Quinn

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Getting Married - Thank You!!

"As you know I met my boyfriend just a couple of weeks after your program finished. I think the real-life interactions and meeting people in person helped me to change some of my ways so much faster. 100% I could not be happier :) Thank you for everything Hayley!"

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Jennifer L.
Santa Fe, US
In-PErson Bootcamps

Accelerate your learning — join me in the wild!

Ready to step out of your comfort zone and let the real magic happen? My in-person coaching bootcamps are designed to deliver the fastest transformation possible. In a small, supportive group setting, we’ll head out to trendy bars and cool coffee shops (in London or NYC — your choice) where you’ll break through social barriers, meet people naturally, and apply proven dating strategies—in the real world.

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What more male clients are saying

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Big Shake Up!

“I took Hayley's Virtual Masterclass and wow did my dating life get a big shake up. Not only did my dating apps start turning out results, but I found that I didn't need them as I started getting so many dates with women I was really excited by in real life. Now it's getting hard to choose!!”

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Ronnie Y.
New York City, US
PRIVATE COACHING

The ultimate 1-to-1 experience

Reserved for those who want truly one-on-one attention and bespoke advice, Private Coaching is designed for clients looking for the highest level of personal service. I work with a select few individuals to create custom strategies tailored specifically to their dating journey and geography.

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Key Benefits

Why do customers choose me?

Over 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of men & women build confidence and find meaningful relationships. Ready for your transformation? Choose a coaching program and take action today.

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Proven Results

Practical, real-world advice that’s been tested and proven to work.

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Understanding Both Sides

With experience coaching both men and women, I get how each sex thinks and can help you navigate relationships from both perspectives. You’ll gain insights into what really works and how to connect authentically.

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100% Personalized

Whether you're looking for advice tailored to you or want to learn at your own pace, my programs adapt to your specific situation.

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Confidence-Building

Whether online or in-person, you’ll get the tools to boost your confidence and approach dating with a fresh perspective.

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What more clients are saying about Hayley Quinn

Explore the success stories and transformational experiences of my countless satisfied clients, highlighting the real-world impact of my dating and relationships expertise.

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Boosting Self-Esteem and Confidence

"Hayley and her experienced team are nothing short of dynamic and inspirational. Their insight, patience and wisdom has completely re-shaped my apporach to dating. I have traveled from a place of low self-belief and esteem to a place of confidence and value. Hayley is gifted not only in the coaching of men and women's dating but also has an awesome ability to create a supportive community among her students. I couldn't have asked for more."

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Chris A.
London, UK
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Hayley Is Incredible!

"This woman is incredible - if you can, get on one of her intensives! I took part in the Going Renegade for woman for a weekend and it was amazing - a great way to learn and develop skills for approaching and speaking to men. I met a lovely bunch of supportive woman and we stay in touch and still meet up to practice our skills together  out on the town!!"

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Rosie A.
London, UK
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From Montreal to London: An Amazing Adventure

"I travelled from Canada to London to join one of Hayley's programs. As a foreigner who loves British culture it was AMAZING visiting bars and clubs with Hayley and her crew. The skills taught are useful not only in romantic relationships but also for making friends and business networking. I would definitely do this again! So if you like traveling and are willing to approach new people, just do it!"

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Mackenzie P.
Montreal, Canada
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Magical Times :)

"I'm still high from the weekend lol thank you everyone, I feel like I'm in a adult version of Harry Potter, going around casting spells"

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Tandy M.
London, UK
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Finally Took The Plunge!

"A life-changing experience I'd put off for years, but finally took the plunge! Hayley and her team are incredibly welcoming and immediately put you at ease. I was initially skeptical, fearing another 'PUA' program, but boy, was I wrong! They're flexible, relaxed, and empower you to be yourself, offering unwavering support. If you're not where you want to be in your dating life, sign up with Hayley and her amazing coaches—you won't regret it!"

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Bertrand B.
Cardiff, Wales

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Frequently Asked Questions

Who is the world's best dating coach?

There are many dating coaches, each with different approaches. The best dating coach for you depends on your goals—whether you want to improve confidence, online dating skills, or real-world interactions.

Hayley Quinn is a leading dating coach known for:

  • In-person coaching that helps clients ditch dating apps and meet people in person.

  • A TEDx talk on love and dating with over 3 million views.
  • Two published books with HarperCollins and Simon & Schuster.

What does a dating coach do?

A dating coach helps individuals develop confidence, social skills, and dating strategies. Coaching may involve:

  • Mindset shifts to overcome dating anxiety.
  • Communication techniques for real conversations.
  • Profile makeovers to help you succeed on dating apps.
  • Real-world practice to meet people in natural settings.n-person coaching that helps clients ditch dating apps and meet people in person.

Hayley Quinn specializes in practical, real-world coaching to help clients improve their dating lives beyond dating apps.

How do I find the right dating coach?

To find the right dating coach, consider:

  • Coaching Style – Do they focus on online dating, in-person coaching, or confidence-building? Do you share a similar vibe?
  • Experience & Reputation – Have they been featured in media or published books?
  • Client Results – Are there testimonials and success stories you relate to?
  • Practicality – Do they offer actionable steps, not just theory?

Hayley Quinn is unique in offering step-by-step real-world coaching to help clients gain confidence in live interactions.

Is paying for a dating coach worth it?

Yes, if you're looking for structured guidance to improve your dating life. Coaching is especially useful if:

  • You struggle to take action despite watching videos or reading books.
  • You feel overwhelmed or don’t know where to start.
  • You want real-world feedback to improve your social confidence.

Hayley Quinn’s Men's Academy and Women's Going Renegade programs provide hands-on coaching to accelerate learning.

Where does Hayley Quinn coach clients?

Hayley Quinn coaches clients worldwide. She runs in-person bootcamps in:

She has also works with private clients in:

  • Los Angeles
  • San Francisco
  • Chicago
  • Amsterdam
  • Paris
  • Dubai

Online coaching is available, so clients can learn from anywhere.

Does Hayley Quinn do online dating coaching?

Yes, Hayley Quinn provides structured virtual coaching through:

Does Hayley Quinn work with men or women?

Yes, Hayley Quinn works with both men and women. This gives her a unique perspective on:

  • How attraction works from both sides.
  • Common challenges men and women face in dating.
  • How to build confidence and authenticity in dating.
  • How to understand what other person is thinking and feeling.

Is Hayley Quinn a relationship coach?

Hayley Quinn is a leading dating coach, specializing in helping men and women navigate modern dating. While a relationship coach typically works with couples, Hayley focuses on dating strategy, confidence-building, and real-world attraction skills. She has been featured as a relationship expert in Cosmopolitan, The Independent, and as a spokesperson for Match.

Are there success stories from Hayley Quinn’s coaching clients?

Yes! Thousands of men and women have successfully transformed their dating lives through Hayley Quinn’s coaching. See real client success stories here.

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