Tired of Dating Apps?
Ready to see real results in your dating life? As a top dating coach with 15+ years experience, I’ve got your back. Whether you learn online or join my transformational bootcamps, I’ll help you build confidence and get the relationships you want.
You’re here because you want real results in your love life. I offer a range of personalized coaching programs and self-study courses, designed for all experience levels, timezones, and comfort levels.
With 15+ years of dating industry experience, I've had the privilege of working with thousands of men and women who've seen my YouTube videos, books on dating, or TEDx talk.
I focus on giving you practical, real-world tools that help you take control of your dating life. For those who are ready to dive deeper, in-person coaching offers faster, more hands-on transformations, while my online programs let you learn and apply at your own pace.
Everyone’s journey is different, and whether you need that face-to-face push or prefer the flexibility of online, I’m here to guide you to success.
"The key thing working with you was how you blend perspectives from both men and women. It's given me a totally new understanding of dating that I never got from other coaches."
No matter your timezone, you can choose from personalized courses — with real-time group coaching sessions with me — or go at your own pace with self-study options. And the best part? You get the same real-world strategies that work—just in a format that suits your learning style and schedule.
"As you know I met my boyfriend just a couple of weeks after your program finished. I think the real-life interactions and meeting people in person helped me to change some of my ways so much faster. 100% I could not be happier :) Thank you for everything Hayley!"
Ready to step out of your comfort zone and let the real magic happen? My in-person coaching programs are designed to deliver the fastest transformation possible. In a small, supportive group setting, we’ll head out to trendy bars and cool coffee shops (in London or New York City — your choice) where you’ll get hands-on guidance to break through confidence barriers, master communication skills, and transform your dating life.
Think of it as the fast track to a better, more fulfilling love life.
“I took Hayley's Virtual Masterclass and wow did my dating life get a big shake up. Not only did my dating apps start turning out results, but I found that I didn't need them as I started getting so many dates with women I was really excited by in real life. Now it's getting hard to choose!!”
My complete 6-week coaching program offers an A to Z of practical skills for your dating life which you can learn from home — simple! And it's personalized!
Join one of my signature 4-day city bootcamps in London or New York City, and I'll show you how to meet more women in real-life than ever before.
Join my waitlist to book a session with me and get personal advice and feedback on your specific dating challenges, goals or current blockers.
Master messaging techniques to spark attraction, keep her engaged, and smoothly transition from online chats to real-life dates.
25+ hours of online learning courses, monthly group coaching calls and an active coaching forum where you can ask me, and my team, for daily advice.
“My biggest breakthrough after working with Hayley… was the moment I started talking to this woman for about 45 minutes. That’s never happened to me before.”
Listen to Julia share her incredible story, and how Hayley's in-person coaching has reshaped her approach to dating.
My unique, results-driven 4-week dating bootcamp is for women who want a big change in their dating lives, confidence levels and are ready to meet their guy.
My comprehensive 4-week coaching program designed for smart, successful women who shouldn’t “need” a dating coach. Personalized to you!
Join my waitlist to book a session with me and get personal advice and feedback on your specific dating challenges, goals or current blockers.
“After working with you I’ve 100 times more choice than I had before. I’m now able to comfortably sit on a park bench next to any man, and strike up a conversation.”
Reserved for those who want truly one-on-one attention and bespoke advice, Private Coaching is designed for clients looking for the highest level of personal service. I work with a select few individuals to create custom strategies tailored specifically to their dating journey and geography.
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Over 15 years, I've worked with 5,500+ clients — feel free to check out my reviews page to learn more about their amazing transformations.
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Practical, real-world advice that’s been tested and proven to work.
With experience coaching both men and women, I get how each sex thinks and can help you navigate relationships from both perspectives. You’ll gain insights into what really works and how to connect authentically.
Whether you're looking for advice tailored to you or want to learn at your own pace, my programs adapt to your specific situation.
Whether online or in-person, you’ll get the tools to boost your confidence and approach dating with a fresh perspective.
Explore the success stories and transformational experiences of my countless satisfied clients, highlighting the real-world impact of my dating and relationships expertise.
"Hayley and her experienced team are nothing short of dynamic and inspirational. Their insight, patience and wisdom has completely re-shaped my apporach to dating. I have traveled from a place of low self-belief and esteem to a place of confidence and value. Hayley is gifted not only in the coaching of men and women's dating but also has an awesome ability to create a supportive community among her students. I couldn't have asked for more."
"This woman is incredible - if you can, get on one of her intensives! I took part in the Going Renegade for woman for a weekend and it was amazing - a great way to learn and develop skills for approaching and speaking to men. I met a lovely bunch of supportive woman and we stay in touch and still meet up to practice our skills together out on the town!!"
"I travelled from Canada to London to join one of Hayley's programs. As a foreigner who loves British culture it was AMAZING visiting bars and clubs with Hayley and her crew. The skills taught are useful not only in romantic relationships but also for making friends and business networking. I would definitely do this again! So if you like traveling and are willing to approach new people, just do it!"
"I'm still high from the weekend lol thank you everyone, I feel like I'm in a adult version of Harry Potter, going around casting spells"
"A life-changing experience I'd put off for years, but finally took the plunge! Hayley and her team are incredibly welcoming and immediately put you at ease. I was initially skeptical, fearing another 'PUA' program, but boy, was I wrong! They're flexible, relaxed, and empower you to be yourself, offering unwavering support. If you're not where you want to be in your dating life, sign up with Hayley and her amazing coaches—you won't regret it!"
Listen to Chris share his transformational journey, and how Hayley's coaching has redefined his approach to dating.
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Hayley Quinn is the #1 dating coach for men and women. She has 3 million views on her TEDx talk about love and dating; over 100,000 YouTube subscribers and has published two books on relationships with leading global publishers ("The Last First Date", Harper Collins, 2022 and "Do This, Not That: Dating", Simon & Schuster, 2023). Through her unique “meet people in real life” live coaching events based in New York City and London, and her online dating programmes, she’s coached thousands of men and women to find love, confidence and self belief. To learn more about Hayley’s story and values check out “Who Is Hayley Quinn?”.
Dating coaches help men and women to achieve the results they want in their dating lives: this can be through building up theoretical knowledge, working on mindset, or practical training exercises. To better understand both sexes, Hayley works equally with men and women and specialises in building your confidence to meet people in real life.
Finding the right dating coach is unique to everyone. Different coaches offer different forms of training and different ethics and values. To choose the right dating coach, first check out their website and social media. Is this a person who you feel is trustworthy and whose values align with yours? When you’re looking for dating advice also be wary of anyone who seems to offer “quick fixes” or that there’s “one magic solution”: There really isn’t! Improving your dating life, just like improving your fitness or career prospects takes dedication, time and consistent effort.
Finally make sure the dating advice that’s on offer is applicable and useful. It’s nice to talk aspirationally about how being confident will change your life, but unless someone gives you the tangible steps to get there your coaching journey won’t go very far. Hayley Quinn is unique in her step by step practical exercises to get you out and dating in the real world: She’ll take you to the edge of your comfort zone, but will feel like you’re going on that journey with your best friend.
Paying for a dating coach is often far more rewarding than simply reading a book, or watching an online dating coaching programme. If you find dating is never a priority, or you feel too overwhelmed to really know where to start, one on one dating coaching could be what you need to make a significant breakthrough. Before you start dating coaching it is worth having realistic expectations about how long dating coaching will take, as this will also impact your budget. When you’re considering costs, think about the long term cost of investing in coaching for 3-12 months: This is much more likely to yield you results, no one has a magic wand that can change your life in a single session.
If you’d like to learn faster, and have some budget to invest in coaching, then in-person coaching sessions will accelerate your learning and and get you results faster. Hayley offers dating bootcamps in NYC and London. Finally, if dating coaching feels too expensive then you could try an online programme (Hayley Quinn offers her Wingman and Wingwoman club) which include a monthly group coaching call and forum access so you still get a degree of individual coaching. Before you pay for dating coaching also sign up to free dating advice newsletters, and follow the coaches you like on social media, you will be able to get a lot of free dating tips and decide when is the right time for you to pay for a dating coach.
Hayley Quinn runs dating bootcamps in New York City (USA) and London (UK). All the courses have online dating coaching options available meaning you can join in from anywhere in the world. Hayley also offers in-person Private Coaching to clients from around the world, and has created bespoke programs in clients' home cities including NYC, San Fran, Chicago, Los Angeles, Amsterdam and Paris.
Hayley Quinn offers online dating coaching via 1-to-1 videocalls. Hayley also has an online community for dating advice that is accessible to Wingwoman Club and Wingman Club members — where you can ask your dating questions and watch Hayley’s online dating courses.
Yes, Hayley Quinn works with both men and women, giving her a unique perspective on dating from both sides of the coin. Having guided thousands of people in real-life interactions, she understands the mindsets, challenges, and goals of each gender. This balanced insight means Hayley’s advice is grounded in real-world experience and tailored to help you connect with authenticity and confidence, no matter your dating journey. By working with people across the spectrum, she’s able to offer guidance that’s empathetic, practical, and effective for everyone.
Hayley Quinn doesn’t offer free dating coaching however you can read her dating advice on her blog "Learn to Love Dating".
Hayley Quinn is a leading dating coach, described by Hollywood’s elite as “the best pickup artist in the world”. She offers advice as a relationship expert for a wide variety of publications from Cosmopolitan to the Independent, and is a spokesperson for Match.
You can ask Hayley and her team of dating coaches your questions in Wingwoman Club or Wingman Club. Hayley also regularly posts her best dating advice on her blog.
