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Don’t get me wrong, I think she should be so into you. You’re working hard to get your life sorted, you have good values and the ability to make her very happy. Unless you can get her to realize that though she’s going to keep ignoring you and choosing that other guy (who yes probably is an asshole).
The problem is when you first approach her she doesn’t know anything about you. If you don’t get great at communicating your values, and who you are, all she has to go on are your looks and whether you resemble a guy she’s dated in the past. This is why you could be on dating apps forever and never get the matches you want. Women are not looks focused. But unless you’re able to take a risk and tell her about yourself that’s all you’re leaving her to judge you on. Women have also been told that you will judge her if she makes the first move. The result of this means if you let a fear of rejection stop you from approaching her, telling her what you want and being honest about who you are it is unlikely that she will ever choose you.
You can look at dating skills training like hiring a personal trainer. With expert knowledge, support, guidance and your own effort you can radically change your results with women. You can do this without lying, using cheesy pick up lines or turning into a chest-beating alpha male. But I do need you to get off the starting blocks and get ready to really learn about how women think and how to talk to women.
Imagine a world where you have the power to take the action you want and feel confident that you can approach, attract and date the women you want.
We spend most of our time feeling frustrated that we don’t have the choices we want in life. You are going to change how you approach dating and finally have the confidence to create that choice for yourself.
You will know where to meet women, how to approach her, how to speak to her and make her excited to see you again. No more putting yourself in the friend zone and putting women who don’t value you on a pedestal just for being hot. No woman would go out with a guy just because he’s good looking. I want the same for you – I want you to invest your time in women who you think are hot and cool 😉 good looking and great to spend time with. You’re going to make up for lost time, get off the side lines and start having the experiences with women you want.
What type of women are best for me?
How do I meet more women?
How to avoid small talk and be more interesting
How to be HOT aka have sex appeal
How to get a high quality girlfriend
What do you want?
Stop putting her on a pedestal for being pretty – attract better women
Attract and approach women in real life
Conversation skills that keep her on her toes
Non-creepy ways to flirt, touch, & be the guy she wants to date
Choose her instead of ending up in any old relationship
What do you want?
I have helped thousands of men and women get more dates, understand each other better and communicate what they want.
I do not believe in ‘cookie cutter’ love and dating rules. My goal is to empower you to understand what uniquely works for you. To do this my approach to dating skills training emphasizes you getting off the sidelines, becoming an action taker and learning the skills you need to create change. It combines the best of my understanding of human behaviour and social skills techniques learned from the world of pick up artists; combined my outlook that these techniques can be taught in a way that is ethical and great for both men and women.
My advice is non-sleazy, smart and sophisticated for a modern dating world.
Since the start of this year my techniques have been featured in the Telegraph, the Metro and ELLE magazine. They’ve formed into my signature women’s weekend training event ‘Going Renegade’ where women learn how they can approach men. They’ve been pitched to online dating companies in San Francisco to help them improve their user experience. They’ve helped women to not feel apologetic about their singleness, to go on more dates, to tell men what they want and to feel happier.
These ideas have made viral YouTube videos (12.5 Million views and counting), a TEDx talk and numerous TV appearances. Now for the first time this ‘renegade’ approach to love and dating is becoming the cool dating guide for women. If you’re passionate about meeting more people, taking action and learning how you can date smarter & better I’d also love you to check out my exclusive community for dating coaching: the HQ Club.
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